thesubwhisperer:One of the biggest myths is that the D type has the power, But in reality it is the
thesubwhisperer:One of the biggest myths is that the D type has the power, But in reality it is the S type who has the ultimate power in the dynamic. That is the power of choice. If you choose to be in a dynamic. Every D type whether Dom, Master, sadist, rigger or play top needs to EARN the right for YOUR submission and not just once but ongoing. Even in a debauch, degrading, humiliation slave/master dynamic, the slave’s well being (physical, mental and emotional) still needs to be maintained. If the D type does not meet the S types needs and their right to their submission. Then use your ultimate power and walk away from the dynamic. If the d type tells you that you have no right to leave the dynamic, Then this should be an immediate red flag and further cement why you should leave the dynamic. Always practice SSC (safe, sane, consensual) and RACK (Risk assessed consensual Kink) play.TheSubWhispererMany don’t see it this way! Well written and well said! -- source link