dorito82: gitsie007: eve1978:erinolenko:bundlesofeverything:So I’m going to try and make
dorito82: gitsie007: eve1978: erinolenko: bundlesofeverything: So I’m going to try and make this the last post about Taylor and Tom’s relationship, but I just have to say that this whole thing hasn’t felt right with me since the beginning. I still feel like she’s using him and it’s just some joke or publicity stunt. I’ve never been a fan of hers, I’ve always thought she was kind of fake, and sure….maybe she is really nice to her fans and to most people, but I still find her fake and I feel really bad for Tom. Every time I see pictures of them together, and they’re EVERYWHERE, she’s hanging all over him, and I can’t really express it in a way that makes sense, but her face always looks like she’s up to something. Like it’s always this smug expression and it, again, feels fake. If this is just her way to get back at her ex, even though he’s moved on and she supposedly has to, I don’t know why she had to use one of the nicest guys who has never done any wrong to anyone for that. I feel like Tom is the one who’s going to get his heart broken in the end of all this. She’s going to find some way to play her victim card and blame him for “breaking her heart” and then write some stupid song about it and that’s not fair to him. I’ve never disliked her on this intense of a level before and I genuinely don’t think she’s a good person. I feel like I’ve lost any kind of respect of what I might of had for her. Because if this is just one big game to her, you don’t treat people like that. He’s not some pawn. And I hope he sees all this drama that’s being included into their relationship and realizes that he wants no part in it. He’s a very private person, he’s ALWAYS kept his past relationships secret, so why all of a sudden is he ok with his relationship being in the spotlight?? It doesn’t make sense to me. I feel like Taylor is just using him as a dancing monkey and I’m not ok with this. I get that as a fan of him I’m supposed to be supportive and be happy that he’s found happiness, but I can’t support this. Not when he’s with someone like Taylor, someone who pretends to be sweet and innocent but really is some conniving bitch who will do anything to keep a good reputation and fool people into believing that she’s something she’s really not. I REALLY hope he opens his eyes and realizes that he deserves SO MUCH BETTER and doesn’t want any part of what she’s doing. I also feel like she knows he’s not a confrontational person. He avoids drama, so she figures he’s going to let her do whatever she wants, proof in the ‘I heart t.s.’ shirt, probably. He’s not a door mat. You can’t take advantage of good people and think you can get away with it. He deserves SO MUCH BETTER, my god, I can’t express that enough!! I mean… I can’t even put into words how much all of this has made me feel about her now. She’s a horrible person and I really, really hope people start to see that. I feel like from the beginning of this relationship I knew her intentions weren’t pure. I feel like she treats men horribly, and even though I don’t know anything about her past relationships, I feel like her actions are a major reason why she moves through so many of them. I feel like she gives off a possessive vibe and I feel like she can be really mean when she doesn’t get her way. There’s a lot more that I could say, but I think I should end it here. I wish Tom the very best and I really hope he comes out of this alright. @thewidownatasha @eve1978 This Yes, except for one thing: Tom is a very willing participant in all of this, this is a grown, smart (or at least we thought) man very capable of making his own choices. Very capable of seeing the world’s reaction and drawing his own conclusions. He is not held at gunpoint nor do I believe he is pushed into this, I see fans say ‘he looks so unhappy and stressed’ or ‘this is not what he signed up for’. I’m sorry but he can leave anytime he wants to, he doesn’t seem to want to though. Time will tell what this relationship really is, but please don’t feel sorry for the man, he is where he wants to be and where he put himself, he is not a victim, nor does he need fans to defend him on here. All of this!!^^Taylor may not be a nice person but Tom has to be aware of her past behavior. He is not that naive. He is probably having buyer’s remorse now, who knows? Anyway, he made this choice.. I agree with you, @eve1978. The fact that he actually hasn’t left is really telling, too, though. Just pointing that out. What I don’t understand is how the OP can say with such clarity that she’s a horrible person, without giving evidence to back up that statement. These are just my opinions…. I’m not trying to post a novel on all the bad things that she’s done, there are plenty of other people who do that, so choose any of those and hopefully it’ll clear up your confusion. -- source link