iammegadaddyissues: So this has been a questions i’ve had for some time: could someone explain
iammegadaddyissues: So this has been a questions i’ve had for some time: could someone explain the leather harness? Does it serve a function or purpose or is it just something laden with S&M meaning and significance, like a leather cap or dark RayBan sunglasses? If it’s just semiotics i’d love to hear the history behind it’s assigned meaning if anybody knows. i mean, i could Google it but shit - i got the experts right here! And is it solely for DOMs or do sub’s wear it too? From a sub perspective, it just seems like it’s something to be put on someone you want to yank around and control or chain to a wall. But i always see it on big, muscular, hairy Men like this. So there’s a little confusion there. That harness on Him is hot as fuck. And i do love seeing it on a Man like this but it just seems so very wrong on anyone else. i sure wouldn’t want to wear one; i’d look and feel absolutely ridiculous! i’m just a little confused by what the word harness implies verses the types of Men i see wearing it. Maybe it’s not called a harness at all. Enlighten me? I’ve wondered the same thing. Looking forward to the replies. -- source link