ihaveatherapist: I spent many years in insecurity. And within my church community I was told that I
ihaveatherapist:I spent many years in insecurity. And within my church community I was told that I just didn’t believe God enough, that my faith wasn’t great enough to dispel my doubts. In these last years, I lose my grandmother (who I loved and leaned upon heavily), and last year I lost my best friend and sister of 16 years to cancer. With these losses of loved ones, I also lost friendships and relationships, and never seemed to be a more optimistic person over all.I only started seeing a counselor in 2011, but made a switch after last year’s tragedies. I tried to skirt around seeing one because of the culture I came up with, that “black people deal with their problems on their own” and “I am crazy.”I got a new counselor through my church; and in dealing with my grief, I find out after all these years of struggling with myself that I also had dysthymic disorder (a low grade depression)! Like, wow!Counselors and therapists who are not in your life expect by paying them to listen to you is not a horrible thing. They are trained to steer your thinking to a healthy perspective and provide insight. I have seen so many people in the African American community fall through the cracks on getting sufficient mental health treatment, going through life in bipolar or schizophrenic disorders untreated. I have the lowest grade of depression, but I do not think I’d be where I mentally and emotionally am today with prayer and my wonderful therapist. I continue to grow and get better, and I’m so very thankful for it. Let’s #endthestigma and become healthy people. If you need it, seek a therapist! -- source link