writeswrongs: he’s literally a fucking monster who lies and predates on brown women and tells
writeswrongs:he’s literally a fucking monster who lies and predates on brown women and tells them he’s singleHe hides the fact he’s married and kicked his brown wife out of his homeHe hides my existence from everyoneHe claims to make 100 - 150K a year and then tries to liquidate our assets, like the car, so that he won’t have to help me or offer me anythinghe claims to desperately need money but chose to stay in our luxury apartment instead of breaking the lease and having us both live modestlyhe attacks me for buying organic groceries or needing winter clothes and then emotionally terrorizes me by breaking into my email account or my livejournalhe told me he wished I ‘would just vanish’and he’s sitting here, trying to trick other women into fucking him in my bed, in our home, in a place he claims I have no right to and don’t even deserveif I kill myself this is why, this man took everything from me, my home, my health insurance, my pet, my future, my hope, my clothes, my privacy, my feelings of even being a human, my psychiatrist, my medication that I need to treat my mental illness - everything. everything I had. This man took from me.My friend has been emotionally abused by her husband for months now and I’m deeply concerned with how this has impacted her mental health, and how he will treat future women he’d interact with considering how he treats the wife he abandoned.He’sCut her insurance and ability to access affordable mental and physical healthcare.Kicked her out of their home with no warning, previous communication and with little time to remove all her possessions.Has complete control over her finances and could cut her housing and food budget at any time.Does not contact her, keeping the state of their marriage in limbo for her (including the state of her finances and housing), and when they are in contact he mistreats her and then acts like nothing happened.Has hidden the fact that he’s married on his okcupid (saying he’s single and seeking short/long term relationships) and on his facebook, from both the public and even from his friends. Kicked his wife out of their home shortly after receiving his residency in the United States.Constantly threatens to cut her off due to “how expensive she is” and how “close he is from his car being repossessed” while living in a high end apartment, has a personal tailor, takes private music lessons and is clearly spending his money on other women as well while knowing that her only option if she were to become homeless in Portland would be to return to her physically abusive family in California.While they were together, he would attempt to isolate her from her community and friends by only wanting her to spend time with him and would become upset when she did spend time with people other than him.Please reblog this so other women in the Portland area know this man is not safe. His okcupid is here. Ask him what happened to his wife, aren’t you married, why are you trying to find other women when you have a wife, etc.Update:He just texted her threatening to completely cut her off due to her blocking him on Facebook. This man predates on Women of Color. He’s dangerous to their wellbeing.His name is Shaun Friedlehttps://plus.google.com/101039734624839802856/postshttps://www.linkedin.com/pub/shaun-friedle/5b/56b/758http://singlemindconsulting.com/about-ushttp://www.meetup.com/20-and-30-somethings-in-Portland-AWESOME-Stuff/members/118575722/https://twitter.com/starsprunghttp://www.quora.com/Shaun-Starsprunghttps://myspace.com/172126334All I could findEveryone I just want you to see just how much work this man puts into finding new women to prey on and how even now that he has divorced me he has never told all these poor women that he is only “single” because he threw me out of my house and took everything threat belonged to me. Seriously please never forget what this man did to me and don’t let him erase his abusive heinous past. He literally got American residency through me and then threw me out like I was a piece of garbage.And share this so that women in Portland don’t date him or get abused by him. I want this man to go back to England because he feels so fucking uncomfortable here.Deplorable.You guys, tumblr has taken down the pictures and removed this post from his tag. He’s dating other women of color now and still has all this predatory behavior. All the things we do to protect each other, those things can be erased in a second. -- source link
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