a-miss-inside: You could be a boy if you want to… but why? Why?Dressing up and exploring your
a-miss-inside: You could be a boy if you want to… but why? Why?Dressing up and exploring your gender by crossdressing is a natural thing to do. And for most after the experience we just move on to the next adventure. But for some of us you were drawn to them in a way you could not understand.That first time becomes an awaking of what could be. And you might ask the question, or just fantasize, what if I could stay this way? What if I had breasts? What if I had a vagina? Such a range of emotions and feelings you could not explain to yourself. And perhaps you, like myself, were drawn like a moth to a flame to repeat the experience over and over again.Society said it was wrong because you are a male and these are female clothes. Maybe you tried to stop… but could not… as much as you kept trying. And you asked yourself why you craved the feeling and why it just felt right? The experience was repeated over and over again, over the months and years because of those feelings as you searched for an answer to… Why. It becomes a quest to understand as you obtain more clothes to wear and you dress for longer and longer periods in private. It’s a guarded secret you try to hide as your dressing seems to take on a life of its own.To make a long story short… Some of us were born this way with similar experiences to those delicious clothes. I learned I am transgender, born with a male body but with a strong need to express to the world my feminine gender identity.My gender identity is not about whom I’m attracted to or dressing to attract another person. It’s not about being marginalized or being made fun of. It’s not about tricking another person. It is about feeling right in my own body and feeling her on the outside. And so I feel less gender dysphoria dressing as my inner self rather than dressing only as a boy / man because of having a penis.My penis is a part of my male body but it does not dictate my gender identity. And… YES… I would push that button without hesitation to wake up with a female body with all the extras. -- source link
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