a-miss-inside: “Get out of that right now!” Never… Your Own Unique Presenta
a-miss-inside: “Get out of that right now!” Never… Your Own Unique Presentation…Why you ask? Why would I fight against the patriarchal traditions of society when it comes to how I present my gender identity? You see having a penis between my legs does not mean I can only feel masculine and must only present as such in proper society.I personally would have been be more than happy to have been born with a female body. And… Yes… I would have my penis removed and have a neo-vagina in its place. Most men would run screaming away at the thought of having their penis removed, or even just an orchiectomy. Not I. And this is my personal choice. It should not be a requirement.I’m not trying to trick you or lure you away. I’m encouraging you to be your true self. How I present is no reflection on your own presentation. Forcing someone against their true gender identity, a gender conflict known as gender dysphoria, can cause great harm, even suicidal thoughts when the dysphoria is severe.And… FYI… how I present has nothing to do with whom I’m attracted too. Let me discover for myself without anyone’s preconceived notions of how I look.For the vast majority of persons their body and their gender identity align. They never feel this conflict inside and so they have a hard time relating to and understanding those who feel this. But I know how I feel, the earliest moments I came to realize this was, and is, a need I have.For myself the dysphoria is mild. It’s not an addiction by wearing panties or some such nonsense at an early age. That was an awakening to the truth of who I am inside. It can’t be ended or cured, as if this was some mental illness or disease.You see it is society saying… “You’re not feminine and must not wear feminine clothes…” that creates part of my conflict, my dysphoria, as I look in the mirror seeing my maleness not feeling beautiful.If I could have been able to wear what I wish from the very beginning of my life without ridicule, without someone saying… “You’re male and you look stupid wearing female clothes.” … I would have had a much different life. Normalizing, in all our minds, the look of a male body to look more feminine would be a good start. Beauty is truly in the eye of the beholder.Today I wear the clothes to be myself, for myself, and not for you. Perhaps someday in the future those of us with male bodies, or females who wish to look more masculine, can wear what we wish without ridicule or scorn, a more perfect society as our true selves. -- source link
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