madzandcheese: thatqueerbirthdaykid: anxiousglittertiger: thefringeperson: north-peach: stuckonjbbar
madzandcheese:thatqueerbirthdaykid:anxiousglittertiger:thefringeperson:north-peach:stuckonjbbarnes:sebbbystaaan:perpetually-tuned-out:1-ofthecoolkids2:tumakhunter:hapslock:eclecticstudentwriter:succubus-is-smol:black-hippie-moonchild:17mul:phoenixwolf876:lovelynemesis:This has happened to me before when I was in college at a frat party. This girl comes squeezing herself in between me and my friend and throws her arms around me. “Amanda, I am so glad you decided to come!” I was so confused and just figured she was drunk and mistaked me for someone else, until I saw the panic on her face. She leaned close and whispered that a guy was following her, was certain that he had put something in her drink and if I would please play along. I looked behind her and sure enough, some creep was watching her like a hawk. We invited her to hang out with us the rest of the night and even waited until her ride showed up just to make sure she was safe. Always look out for each other! If you ever feel scared like this just come up to me like we have been friends since kindergarten, call me any name u can come up with ill play along.Stay together, stay safePerfect advice.I’m reblogging this as a guy, because first of all, if you”re a guy : DON’T DO THAT. Don’t be that creep.And if you’re a guy and you notice some creep is following or stalking a girl, and that she’s obviously uncomfortable or panicked, go ahead and say hi, long time no see, pretend to be her cousin, and tell her discretly you noticed there was a shady guy. Ask her if something’s wrong, if she feels unsafe, if she wants your help (very important - she may not trust you enough, no one could blame her, don’t take it personally). (and don’t you dare take advantage of the help you offered for a flirt opportunity, that would make you no better than the creep)We can all stop “witnessing and do nothing”, and set an example.Alternative option for a guy: if you feel safe doing so, go up to the creeper who’s following her and be like “hey WHAT’S UP bud do you like SPORTS? My favourite team is the redsox what’s YOURS my man? What you DRINKING dude that looks GOOD.” and be friendly and just loud enough to blow his cover. Draw attention to him and see what he does. He won’t feel as safe creeping if he knows people are looking at him, and maybe he’ll leave. It also means the woman won’t have to worry that you are *another* creeper she has to be wary of, and you may distract the bad dude enough to give her a chance to lose him. Reblogging for that last comment. NO THIS NEEDS TO BE BOOSTEDso like if we are mutuals and you need to call someone on the phone legit hit me up and i will totally give you my number for situations like this. I don’t give two fucks if I’m at work! Your safety is more important to me! Please call me and laugh obnoxiously. Hell put me on speaker while you talk so my coworkers can help make some noise and keep you company^^^^ this thoSAME HEREseriously, don’t hesitate I am someone who does not get social cues very well. At all. But if someone is making you uncomfortable and I am there, I will absolutely be your new best friend and glare pointedly at whatever creeper has you twitchy while I walk with you to wherever you’re going.I will always help you! All these tips are very useful, for guys and for the girls^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^Like legit if it’s life or death I can prerecord some audio calls or send you multiple links to make it look like someone’s calling in to check up on you! I don’t know if you need my voice but there’s a whole ton of stuff like prerecorded messages you can play if you feel like you’re being creeped on on Pinterest! Mom checking in on her kid if you’re a minorOne with a friend if you’re in a creepy UberAnother one with a friend! If shit doesn’t work make this one freak them outIf that doesn’t work bark at them. I’m not gonna say u welcome bc this shit is serious and happens more then u think so I hope this helps!Man, I wish I had thought to do this as a freshman. I was walking home from a party at night and this guy would not leave me alone. Followed me to the train station talking to me the whole time (you’re so beautiful, wanna hear me rap), rode with me for 12 stops, followed me to my dorm, grabbed me, kissed me, and then stayed outside of my dorm all night. I tried signalling to people on the train that I was in trouble (panicked eyes, miming the word help) but I got ignored. Called my friend when I got home (left my phone at the dorm) but she was drunk and hung up. Eventually I got the campus security to chase him off but I saw him hanging around for days after that. Literally all anyone told me when I told them this story was “well why didn’t you call ME?”One of the scariest nights of my life -- source link
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