xyessirx:xyessirx:Diamonds Something serious has came to my attention in the past few months that ha
xyessirx:xyessirx:Diamonds Something serious has came to my attention in the past few months that has been bothering me so much. It’s a problem with some of the Ladies and Gentleman in the Dom and Sub as well as DD/Lg community. First I will address the ladies. To my lovely ladies of the bdsm community simply put…know your worth. I have gotten and seen way too many complaints of verbal abuse from Doms to their submissives or potential submissives and that alone is wrong on their part, which I’m getting to in just a moment; but, ladies: always know that your submission and servitude is a gift and a treasure to your dominant. Something that is earned. Why is it such a gift? It’s simple. We as men would not have life if it were not for you amazing women. The reason we can even be active as a dominant and crave the things we do is because we have a view and lust of such a divine beauty of feminine nature. As a submissive you are not weak by any means, you are empowered and strong in mind. The stronger you are as a woman the more of a gift your submission is to your dom. Walk with confidence knowing that you are in your kink for yourself and no one else but you. You should NEVER under any circumstances do absolutely anything that you genuinely don’t want to do for a dom. Only practice your kink for yourself, not to satisfy the needs of your dominant. You are a submissive because serving and pleasing the needs of your Dom gets you off personally not just for him. And most importantly if you are receiving some ridicule of any sort from a dominant or man in general, laugh in their faces and turn your shoulder without any response. Responding in any manner other than that is giving them power that they surely do not deserve. Do not entertain their cowardly acts with sorrow or despair. You are beautiful, you are divine, and a blessing to this earth, all shapes, sizes, colors and backgrounds. On behalf of all dominants let me personally say thank you for your gracious and treasured submission to us. Now gentleman…its your turn. We are strong, brutal, detailed, precise, and highly skilled miners. What are we minning? Diamonds. As miners we owe a level of class and care to the diamonds we acquire. When we acquire these diamonds we are excited and happy about the discovery of them and can’t wait to begin work on them to form and shape them just the way we want them and view them in our minds. We brutally pressurize these diamonds to be the gleaming, beautiful, shinning stone that we want so bad. These diamonds are our submissives.They did not start out this way but were pressured and trained to be the giving ladies that we need. They humbly come to us strong in mind and giving in spirit for their pleasures as well as ours. They put so much trust in us and give so much for us that we MUST see this as a gift. How precious is that? How devine of a treasure that diamond is. Yes we play a certain way that makes it seem as though they can’t live without our cocks but that’s for the sake of the kink and play, the basic truth is that we need them just as much as they need us. The BDSM community gets so much ridicule from outsiders and people who are too afraid to understand our way of life, why would we EVER ridicule ourselves? In this community we need to be able to lean on each other, male and female, so how dare you talk down to any woman ever in refereance to her kink, sexual preference or image. Those of you who are doing this are ruining the names of true and caring Dominants everywhere, and how dare you call yourself a Dominant in the first place doing such a thing. A dominant is a gentleman before anything else, and ONLY a coward would do such a thing as put a woman down for something that is already a gift to us and especially from behind a computer screen where you can’t be seen. Lastly if you are seeking a Vanilla encounter and you’re not really a Dominant, just say that! Toying around with something that someone else sees as a serious thing is yet another act of cowardice.Respect the fact that for us this is not a kind of role play, this is a lifestyle. It is not like dressing up as a plumber or construction worker to act out like you’re coming over to “fix the leak on a girls pipes” , not at all. You cannot “play” a Dom, if its something you would like to be then be humble and diligent enough to ask the submissive to help you learn and educate you on it rather than try to trick her into thinking you’re something that you’re not. Same goes for trying to turn a girl into a submissive who doesn’t necessarily want to be one, i’m sorry but that is abuse and rape..not “rape play” just rape. A woman finds her own calling as a submissive for herself first not for you.Vice Versa ladies shouldn’t try to turn a man who doesn’t really want to be a Dominant into a dominant and make him feel emasculated for not wanting to be one. Its all about respect. In conclusion, Ladies, carry yourselves as diamonds and know your worth and blessing of submission and know that you are greatly appreciated by those who matter.And Gentleman, cherish these diamonds that you were so lucky to find, whether it be online or in person, respect and chivalry is your first priority dealing with any young lady no matter what her sexual orientation or practices may be. As dominants we are powerful leaders for the bdsm community and must stay true to ourselves by carrying ourselves in the manner our women view us when they get on their knees and look up to us with beautiful precious eyes filled with gratitude. Thank You…and happy Hump Day! Wrote this when I only had 10 followers around this time last year, still applies. It’s always in my Description as a link! -- source link