therearelizardsinthepudding: chellychuu: princess-peachie: cesoirvert: cannibal-rainbow: Of course j
therearelizardsinthepudding:chellychuu:princess-peachie:cesoirvert:cannibal-rainbow:Of course just one of these flags (like 1 or 4) does not make anyone immediately an abuser but every flag can be used as a manipulation tactic.I personally would addThey move too fast. They get very close to you in a short time. If you express discomfort with the pace of your relationship’s progression or try to withdraw, they redouble their efforts to be close to you. They may suddenly have a crisis and insist that only you can help them. Or they may make grand, romantic gestures that are too expensive, ostentatious, or intimate for your current relationship stage.They isolate you. They dislike your friends and family and encourage you to reduce contact with loved ones. They may also extend the isolation and try to keep you from socializing with coworkers or neighbors. They might even try to keep you from making small talk with strangers on the street or random passersby. Everyone you like, they hate. They may also try to push you together with their own friends, especially any of their friends who you don’t get along with.GEEZ GEEZ GEEZ this is so accurate.look out for these signs! i know it’s easy to ignore these things when you’re in love, but please be careful!If you are or think you may be being abused (or know someone who is or may be), I would highly suggest reading Why Does He Do That? by Lundy Bancroft. It focuses mostly on man-on-woman domestic abuse, but it’s very informative and it is available for free download in it’s entirety. (first link to download doesn’t work, but the second is good.) -- source link
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