nabokovsshadows: bemusedlybespectacled: a-polite-melody: weedcourse: 15cocopuffs: peachfuzzcomics: P
nabokovsshadows:bemusedlybespectacled:a-polite-melody:weedcourse:15cocopuffs:peachfuzzcomics:PeachFuzz #176: Sensual RemindersI’m all about this sexual positivity and creating a safe environment in the bedroom. Support the strip/my transition & earn rewards: https://www.patreon.com/peachfuzzcomicsTWITTER - INSTAGRAM - TWITCH - DISCORDit would be a real buzz kill to stop your partner right in the middle of it tho, if you cant handle it all the way at least help them to finish off as well, you should be nice and care for their needs as well as yours right? c:That’s rape. If someone is stopping sex for whatever reason - but especially if they had to stop because they can’t handle it - the last thing their partner(s) should be thinking about is that they should get help getting off. They should be making sure their partner who had to stop the sex is okay, physically, mentally, and emotionally, and being supportive of their partner and their need to stop.The “but I need to get off!” mentality is why and how I was raped by my ex. Both because from me getting physically hurt and needing to stop and then him making me finish him off (while I was still in pain and hurting, I might add), but also because it emboldened him to, instead of just side-stepping my “no,” ignore it altogether.That added comment is so dangerous.Your partner needing to stop during sex SHOULD be a huge buzz kill, because having sex with a person who’s unwilling, uncomfortable, unsure, unhappy, or IN ANY OTHER WAY not 100% on board with the proceedings is repugnant. It’s called rape. -- source link
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