rita-repulza: landmerbabe: no-more-mediation: landmerbabe: queen-of-mists: rita-repulza: If sexualit
rita-repulza:landmerbabe:no-more-mediation:landmerbabe:queen-of-mists:rita-repulza:If sexuality is inherit and all kinks are “natural” then there is no need to try to “teach” (COERCE) your girlfriend or wife into having a BDSM relationship in the bedroom. His girlfriend is right,he needs to go to see someone about -HIS- problem, and she needs to be packing her shit and leaving him before he tries to lock her in that lifestyle. ‘Any man who would deliberately hurt or humiliate a woman is in need of help’ um YES. THAT IS CORRECT what the fuckgood for her for sticking to her guns.she’ll smarten up soon.Deliberately hurt or humiliate a woman WHO DOES NOT ENTHUSIASTICALLY CONSENT, sure, that’s fucked up. But let’s not judge other people’s relationships here please.Putting “enthusiastic consent” in caps lock doesn’t mean a man isn’t getting off to hurting a woman.Most would agree in regular social context, a man hitting /choking/ slapping a woman isn’t okay. Why is it acceptable, then, when his dick is inside her? Why is acceptable to you in a situation where women are actuallyalready the vulnerable party, given how risky sex with men in general is?Why do you, in any context, think its okay for a man to humiliate a woman?Im sickened by the idea of an erection happening in response to my pain. Why aren’t you?Why do these folks always try to deflect from the issue. The subject is that a man has been trying to sexually coerce his girlfriend into BDSM,despite her saying no so many times,he decided to spend 15+ hrs of trying to “convince” her,like her “No” wasn’t even VALID. Stay on topic,stop defending kinkshits. If people actually policed this community that they belonged to no one would make a fuss,but we all know that BDSM’s selling point is that you get to hit ,beat,and choke women like “vanilla” male abusers do (without the risk of jail time)… so policing or ostracizing the Not A “Real” Kinksters from their community will never happen. I hope she gets away from him. -- source link
#abuse#coercion