sfalphabull: A beta male who is “coming out” to himself and his wife should start b
sfalphabull: A beta male who is “coming out” to himself and his wife should start by learning deference to all other men in his, and especially, his wife’s lives. Deference is not quite submission, but it it is a sign of the male social hierarchy that women instinctively notice.Jokingly call another man “Sir” in the presence of your wifeAlways ask him if he wants anything: a drink, a snack, whatever hospitality you have to offer.Offer the other male your seat when he enters the room and there are none available.Try to impress him: tell him stories about good things you’ve done to see if he approves.Your wife will notice subtle deference. She will recognize that you, the beta male, are voluntarily establishing yourself at a lower position on the hierarchy than other men. This will simultaneously attract her to those men, and repel her sexually from you. -- source link