It’s not all about the ecstasy of catharsis, the feeling of the pain and how it makes

It’s not all about the ecstasy of catharsis, the feeling of the pain and how it makes you really live, each nerve ending firing on all cylinders, your entire body one giant conduit for your submission. That’s the high point, the point you’re always building towards. But you’re going to make mistakes. You’re only human. As much as you desperately want to do everything I ask, you’re going to disobey, because the heart of D/s is conflict, and with you, it’s a conflict between what you want, in your mind, and what you want, in your body. In a moment, your immediate desire might be sarcasm, incredulity, or even wit. In that moment, that might be the wrong thing to do. You can’t help it, I understand. I just need to override that instinct.  So you need to understand that, for every glorious high point, you need a low. You need to know what it feels like to be properly punished, where something you really would rather not do is used to instil in your mind that actions have consequences, and that this action has this consequence. If I do it right, when that instinct bubbles up in your throat you’ll just swallow it, the feelings of loneliness and regret from the last time at the forefront of your mind. We’re going to make you a better. I promise. We’ll fix all the little pieces you don’t like about yourself, and keep that beautiful core. And then it can be spanking and sex for the rest of our days.  -- source link

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