There is no room for facades in D/s. I’m sure you’ve all seen them. “D
There is no room for facades in D/s. I’m sure you’ve all seen them. “Doms” who think that their job is to treat women like shit and take what they want from them just because they think they can. But they can’t. They will never have submission. At least not real submission. And you can’t have one without the other. It has been said many times, “submission is earned.” And it’s always been true. A sub may act submissively to someone, but it takes a real Dom to treat her the way she deserves in order for her to submit truly, completely, and totally to her Master. -- source link
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