tenderdominance:The act of punishment is not because I do not love you, or do not care. Quite the
tenderdominance: The act of punishment is not because I do not love you, or do not care. Quite the contrary, it is because I love you that I am guiding you with a firm hand. Each strike against your skin, each vibration of pain and hurt is to remind you that there are rules and order to the life we lead. When Daddy says to do something, we follow directions. When Daddy says to not do something, we obey. If those rules cannot be followed, then a reminder of who is in control needs to be administered. You will cry, you will feel pain, and you will even be afraid of the continuation of the punishment…but never forget that the hand that is being rough, will eventually be soft. Just because one misbehaves, does not mean Daddy stops loving you. In fact, sometimes a reminder of the firmness of Daddy’s control can help in bringing forth the warmth that Daddy will always keep you safe. Even from yourself. It’s a Daddy Dom’s job. And one he does proudly. ©Words by Tender Dominance -- source link