Housework As much as it pains me to say it, we’ve had a cooling off from the sweaty, hot,
Housework As much as it pains me to say it, we’ve had a cooling off from the sweaty, hot, naked portion of our D/s relationship. Not that we’ve stopped having sex, but it’s been awhile since we tried anything new and, well, we’re not going at it like rambunctious teens like we were right after I collared Pet. That said, our 24/7 TPE is going wonderfully. Getting into this, I was mostly in it for the sex - if I’m honest - but I knew Pet wanted more. I love to see Pet happy so I researched and explored ways of exploring her submission with more than just my cock. Pet has never been one for housework or cooking. A conventional housewife she is not, but it is something she aspires too, in a sense. The 1950’s pearls, frock and clean house, only with more piercings, tattoos, and perhaps a fun hair color. Pet has issues with focus though, she sees a house as a mess and is overwhelmed. It’s a forest, not a collection of trees. To be blunt, chores have been a sticking point for both of us for the entirety of our marriage. D/s has largely solved this for us. One of my skills, perhaps from a background in programming, is breaking larger tasks into smaller tasks. Each day now, Pet receives a list of homework she is to accomplish before my work day ends. In turn, knowing exactly what Pet has done with her time I am less resentful and far more likely to do my chores as well. In the end our house is much cleaner than it has ever been. Stress levels are lower for both of us. And if she misses a chore? Spankings ensue. Currently, Pet is on a spanking ladder. Each day she completes all of her tasks, which is the norm, the amount of spankings per missed item is reduced. A missed chore is therefore double penalized, as a spanking is received and the number of spankings for a miss is increased the next day. Pet has done wonderfully under this system, and rarely has a miss. Pet revealed to me the other day, that not only is it easier for her to complete these discrete tasks, but she finds more pleasure in doing so, knowing that these are the tasks I wanted accomplished. I hadn’t thought about it this way, but it did make me smile. All in all, we are both much happier in this new life and as for hot, sweaty, naked parts of D/s? I have plans regarding that coming soon. :) -- source link
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