Taking Suggestions: Kinky, Romantic CampingMy husband and I don’t pretend to know everything.
Taking Suggestions: Kinky, Romantic CampingMy husband and I don’t pretend to know everything. We keep an open mind so we may benefit from the experience and wisdom of others. In this case… we’re going romantic camping, just the two of us, and we could use some help. We’ve camped with large groups before, but never just the two of us. We want to make it fun, romantic, easy, rustic, and kinky – and we’re sorting out how. Perhaps you can help-?We’re spending just one night to start, and we have what we think are the basic supplies: a tent, sleeping bags, sleeping pads, portable gas stove, gas canisters, a pot, frying pan, plates, utensils, flashlights, candle-holder & candle, igniter, batteries, cooler, trash bags, paper towels, toilet paper, bug spray, sunscreen, folding chairs… Food, water, alcohol, pjs, sandals, toothbrushes, beauty bag, medicine, etc go without saying. We like games, so we’re bringing travel Scrabble and cards. He likes stargazing, so: binoculars and a warm blanket-for-two. He’s considering his fishing gear, depending on where we go. And then there’s the “goodie bag” that every couple needs (but doesn’t talk about) – mostly just lube and a battery-powered vibe, in our case.So my first question is: What did we miss?To ask it another way: What item(s) do you think are important for couples’ camping?Southern California Camping Destinations?My next question goes out to any southern California followers out there: Where should we go?We want to go somewhere cool (i.e., not desert – and there’s a lot of that around here), so that probably means higher elevation and wooded. I’m considering William Heise County Park, near Julien. Any other ideas?Next criterion: we want someplace where we can build a fire. We have the gas cook stove as a backup, but fire is primal. It’s important to us both.We also need somewhere private. I don’t want any other tents within close earshot. Let’s be blunt and just say what so many camping couples are truly thinking: the sex. You know it. Hiking, cooking, smores, and stargazing are super fun, don’t get me wrong. But seriously… we’re in the wild. If we can’t rip each other apart like animals in heat, I’ll be seriously disappointed. If the nearest tent is so close that I can’t even use my vibe, I’ll cry.So that’s our criteria:Southern Californiacampgroundcool, woodedfirepitand privacy!Privacy is my biggest unresolved concern. It’s really the reason for this post – everything else we can mostly figure out on our own (though we appreciate your suggestions!). We’re kinky but not exhibitionist, and we want to make the most of this. Ideally, we want enough privacy to have sex out in the open, on a blanket under the stars… then crawl into our tent and snuggle. Because that sounds fucking glorious.Where should we go? Where, in southern California, can we find campgrounds with that kind of privacy?Please reply and regale me with your stories, personal experiences, suggestions, tips, and links. Even if you don’t live in California, any couples’ camping stories or advice is deeply appreciated. Also, please send me your romantic/kinky ideas and experiences: kinky couples’ camping games, tips for outdoor sex, tent sex, etc. I will reblog your answers, unless you don’t want me to. Thanks! You guys rock!Share your thoughts? -- source link
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