adorkably: divinity-study: me-a-weirdo: unchartedraider: parchmentandpencils: jawritter: jensengirl8
adorkably: divinity-study: me-a-weirdo: unchartedraider: parchmentandpencils: jawritter: jensengirl83: flamencodiva: god-be-i-damned: asterixa1313: noquitter: this won’t get 1% of the women’s version of this post. the world we live in, and people in general don’t care about men. we are pretty much robots who aren’t allowed to show emotion. we’re taught from a young age that boys don’t cry. fact is women are sexualised, men are idealised. because men can’t be raped because they’re big and strong right? right? yea, pretty much the idiots view of living. Always reblog Sks support this idea or unfollow me i dont give 3 shits if i loose yall as followers, fuck off if you dont support this you can unfollow me if you think that Men don’t have stigmas against them or get sexualized or are told they have to live up to a standard. Women are not the only ones who can be victims of sexual assault! Always ALWAYS reblog! This is really close to home for me as most of my followers well know!! Men can be victims just as well as women, and the illusion that ‘Its different for a man because he can defend himself’ is complete and utter bullshit. Istg if anyone ever tells me men can’t be a victim of sexual assualt I will literally block them. Stop stereotyping men. WHAT I WAS TALKING ABOUT- This is so fucking sad and disgusting. Crimes are not gendered. Rape is not gendered. Feeling negative feelings is not gendered. Wanting to be heard and helped is not gendered. Being a human being is not gendered! Stop bein disgusting and ignorant people and help those who need it! “Women are sexualized, men are idealized” THIS AND THIS! Rape is rape, regardless of the gender. Without consent, it doesn’t matter what the victim’s gender is — it’s rape and fuck your stigmas if you think otherwise. If you disagree, get the fuck off my blog Look how many likes/interactions this post has. This is a real thing, people. We raise our boys in a certain, toxic way. We raise them to hide their feelings, and ideally, to not feel them. Even when they’re brutally violated like this, we won’t let them cry or grieve or ask for help. Everybody says toxic masculinity contributes to rape culture (spoiler alert: we live in a rape-positive culture), but they never say that this is part of it. -- source link
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