gay-irl: gay♂️irl Okay now I’m mad because of how accurate this is No one told y’al
gay-irl: gay♂️irl Okay now I’m mad because of how accurate this is No one told y’all to know me this wellI can tell y’all too, when I was little I was one of those kids who used the word “gay” as an adjective for anything. Like when I was mad about something I’d be like “man this is so gay” in a negative way, because I heard all of my older cousins say it too. Then I entered middle school where I learned that my entire friend group was made up of bisexuals and a pansexual. I was like yeah these guys are great why did I ever think there was something wrong with this. I also started joining fandoms and became a shipper, I was all for the yaoi and gay ships. I was like yeah this is groovy I’m gonna support y’all as much as I can. I wore flannels buttoned all the way to top and unconsciously flirted with girls and boys alike. On multiple occasions my mother accused me of liking girls but I refused it each time because i didn’t know myself and I didn’t want anyone to tell me. And then came highschool, and I had this epiphany when I started watching this one girl on Tik Tok. Her cute little gap and freckled face made my heart race and I’d squeal every time she did something cute. I realized that- holy shit! IM KIND OF GAY and yeah. That’s cool. I’ve talked a little bit about my bisexuality on this app because it’s the only platform where none of my family are here to see what I post. I don’t think I’m in a position where my whole family would disown me for coming out, but I feel like there would be some disappointment of my grandparents who are highly religious and not quite as progressive. I’ve come out to my mom, my boyfriend, my younger sister, some of my friends, and my most trusted cousin. I never picture myself ending up married to a woman so it doesn’t feel like something I should blindside my family with. I think I can live a happy life without telling the whole world, but sometimes i wish that I didn’t have to come out. I wish that we could just love who we love and no one would think twice about it. Let’s hope homophobia dies out as well as racism and sexism over the next few generations… -- source link
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