cindersk: fringeofdarkness: On Hunger. Hunger is often thought of as a Dominant’s domain, as i
cindersk: fringeofdarkness: On Hunger. Hunger is often thought of as a Dominant’s domain, as in hungering for his girl and taking her in any way he chooses. In this context, there is nothing quite like the rutting of a Dominant who craves his girl, every hole, and every way. However, I believe in cultivating a submissive’s hunger. Take cock sucking, for example. Many new submissives enter into a BDSM relationship after being frustrated (on many levels) with vanilla sex partners. In this dynamic, the male often does whatever he can to cajole or persuade a girl to give him a great blowjob. Submissive women pick up on this, and sense weakness, knowing he will do or say anything to get his pleasure. And cock sucking can lose its appeal to her, being reduced to an obligation versus a joy. In a BDSM relationship, a Dominant male actually builds a submissive’s hunger to suck His cock. He will never hesitate to command pleasure from her, but he will often strip her, bind her, challenge her with pain or exquisite stimulation while keeping His cock just out of reach of her yearning mouth. In doing so, a Dominant establishes not only control but also encouragement of what I like to call the “hot bitch in heat” syndrome. The more He keeps his cock out of reach, the more she craves this as a personal joy and a sexual pleasure. When at last, He grants her permission to suck, all He need do to complete the arousal cycle and bring her to the peak of arousal is to take her by the hair, entwine her locks in His grasp, and bring her onto His cock in a purely carnal way. She will drip, her hips undulate, and she will moan and whimper, spurred on to give him the most pleasure she possibly can. This is a submissive’s hunger. So well put, Sir… And so true, as well. -- source link