erin-sometimes:It’s a two-for Tuesday! Two slightly out of focus full body shots in one post .
erin-sometimes:It’s a two-for Tuesday! Two slightly out of focus full body shots in one post . It’s unfortunately just what happens when I don’t have any natural light . In other news I’ve been kind of having a mental struggle regarding my gender identity. I want to say I’m non-binary as I don’t identify strongly as either male or female, but I feel this sense that I’d be “faking it” since I still present male a vast majority of the time. It’s a lot to deal with and I’m sort of figuring it out, but it might take a minute. . #crossdresser #crossdressing #genderfluid #lgbt #lgbtq #bigender #clotheshavenogender #nonbinary #boytogirl #transformation #genderbender #mtf #glasses #lgbt #lgbtq #nofilter #selfiehttps://www.instagram.com/p/B9AFF7-H3sT/?igshid=tqcu49x5w066 I’m not sure it’s so much what you are as who you are. You can’t fake being Erin. I don’t fit neatly into any boxes and part of that is because the boxes change from person to person. So are you struggling with your personal identity or how you present to others? Because in the latter case, you present yourself however you need to. If you wear a suit to the office and a dress to the club, it doesn’t change who you are inside.Think of it as like a roleplaying game. Sometimes you play as the wizard, sometimes you’re the fighter. As a player, you change your methods based on the talents available to your class and the demands made by the quest you’re trying to complete. But you remain the same person underneath even if you’re wearing different skins. That’s not being fake, it’s being pragmatic.So try reframing the question of “what am I?” to “where am I going?”. Figure out your goals and then come up with a plan to overcome the obstacles in your way of achieving them. You might find that the solution to the latter question helps answer the former. -- source link