lillybgoddess: The Let DownGood Morning Lifestylers…and wannabe lifestylers. Welcome back to
lillybgoddess: The Let DownGood Morning Lifestylers…and wannabe lifestylers. Welcome back to another day of showing off some real hotwives doing their thing…..and people asking questions about this awesome lifestyle. Today I’m gonna touch on being Let Down. For many of us…this can mean multiple things and it’s no different in this lifestyle either. For example…let’s say we ladies start searching for Bulls on a site online. We seem to hit it off really well with one. Stag approves and gives the green light. And you start the “I’ll be fucking you” dance with the new Bull online. You may have even met him at some point but your dialogue is practically all in messaging or online chats. You like him so much that you are ready to set up the playdate. And the moment that you mention the subject of meeting to play….POOF…he disappears! You’re left wondering What the fuck just happened.Yep. This happens all too frequently. It’s a major let down and I have a couple of possible explanations for it. 1. The man you are chatting with..isn’t really a part of the lifestyle and he just talked a good game but in reality…he is scared to death to take it to the next level and actually play. I’ve had this happen a number of times and it irritates the shit out of me. 2. Some of these men are literally cheating on their wives at home. This subject may not be a big deal to some Hotwives but I have a huge problem with this. And if the Bulls havent figured this part about me yet……I Do Not Play With Married Men! Unless the wife is involved and playing too. Hotwifing isn’t about cheating. On the contrary…it is about being brutally honest with each other to the point that nothing is impossible to discuss and experience with each other. Cheating men who want to just get free pussy behind their wives backs….are deceptive and assholes. Some of these assholes succeed in their game and some are just seeking an outlet. Many of the ones seeking an outlet bail at the last minute for fear of guilt. And they kept you in the dark about their true motive and their marital situation. This isn’t fair to themselves, their wife and especially not the Hotwife.So…being let down is unfortunately part of the game. You will experience Bulls who really aren’t Bulls at all. Many of them say that they are…but have no idea how this works. They are fascinated with the idea but treat it like they would any single lady that they prey on. That doesn’t work on me. I have safeguards and you all should too. This is why your Stag should be fully involved in the vetting process and weed out the dumbasses. But even then…you will be let down by some of these guys. It will happen!I can also tell you Bulls that you too…will be let down by some of the Hotwives. You have to remember that Hotwives have a slew of men to choose from. You may not hit her every button and she may just let you go. Dont take that personally. It’s too easy to be offended by that. But you shouldn’t! She has a specific thing she is looking for and you may not fit all of her criteria. Its typical. Get used to that…wish her good luck and move along to the next Hotwife. I have had to Let down a few Bulls before and I’m sure I’ll be doing it again. Some things just have to be perfect for me or it just isn’t worth it to me. We can still be friends but I may not be keen on you continuously reaching out in order to play. At that point…I just ignore you. Long story short….you all will be let down in this lifestyle occasionally but dont let it discourage your search. Because once you find the ones you like…its all worth it.This will be a weekly posting just for Hotwives, Stags, Bulls, and Swingers. Every Tuesday I will focus on your questions, comments, and statements of the Hotwife lifestyle. Feel free to direct all questions today through the submit feature of my Blog! Thank you and Happy Hotwifing! ~LillybGoddessFollow my other blog @hotwifelifestyle101 for all archived questions and episodes. Also all things Hotwives! -- source link