peredur48:whapsboy3: alwaysthinkalternative: \ Belt first then my cane Some Mistresses who are
peredur48:whapsboy3: alwaysthinkalternative: \ Belt first then my cane Some Mistresses who are particularly keen on fostering the utmost submissiveness in their boys, make use of the services of professional dominatrixes to whom they can send these boys for disciplinary ‘top-ups’. For this to work, it’s vital that the boy in question can see the ‘pro-dom’, as they’re popularly known, as the agent of his Mistress and not in any way a substitute for Her. So it’s essential that the two women meet and draw up a contract and that the boy knows that this is happening; indeed, it may be helpful for him to be present for at least part of the meeting. It’s important to make sure that he understands that the purpose of his presence at such a meeting is NOT to suggest that he has any say over how he will be treated by the pro-dom. It’s merely to enable him to witness the fact that his appointment with her for extra discipline will be made as the result of an initiative taken by his Mistress. It is She who will give instructions to the pro-dom about the kind of punishments to which she wants to have him subjected, the implements to be used and other conditions. Another aspect of this arrangement is that whereas there is likely to be an emotional bond between the boy and his Mistress, whose discipline occurs in the context of Her care for him; no such bond should exist between him and the pro-dom, whose attitude towards him is purely professional. When he is brought (or possibly sent) to the actual appointment with the pro-dom, he is likely to find that, at the request of, or at least with the agreement of his Mistress, she will administer a more severe style of punishment than would his Mistress, who may need to offer him more than the usual amount of comfort afterwards. The bearing of the woman in the photo above, known as Lady Joanne, is quite typical in this respect: the coolness of her facial expression, as she flexes her dragon cane, does not suggest the kind of personal warmth that even the strictest Mistress can convey before administering necessary correction to Her boy. It’s not unusual for a Mistress to accompany Her boy to the punishment session, in which case, the pro-dom will ensure that the boy sees her relating respectfully to his Mistress as the person who has the final say over all arrangements. If She is not present during the session, then the pro-dom will be expected to provide Her afterwards with accurate details of the boy’s behaviour and demeanour during punishment. This can be an opportunity for the boy to earn praise for the way he has conducted himself, which reflects well on his Mistress, who will be proud of him. On the other hand, if he has behaved badly in some way during the session, it will be the duty of the pro-dom to report this to his Mistress, who may have to request additional punishment of him by the pro-dom (or carry it out Herself). Something that occasionally occurs when a Mistress is not present while Her boy is being dealt with by the pro-dom, is that he becomes aroused during or after punishment and tries to manipulate her into some kind of inappropriate, unauthorised sexual contact. Of course, the pro-dom will reject any such advances, but it is just as important that she reports the matter to the boy’s Mistress, who will have to decide how to respond. She may, as already suggested, book a further session at which She will ask the pro-dom to punish him more harshly, with an exceptionally severe thrashing. Or She may choose to deal with the matter Herself at home, perhaps with the support of a trusted friend. -- source link