subjectttochange:mygeekcorner:jeshire:justnoodlefishthings:ryukotatsuma:vaguely-problematic:loracaro
subjectttochange:mygeekcorner:jeshire:justnoodlefishthings:ryukotatsuma:vaguely-problematic:loracarol:cheeseanonioncrisps:a-wild-osborne:notgeorgelucas:commodorecliche:commodorecliche:is this lady fucking safe?????????? GOD IT GETS SO MUCH WORSE:“your comfort in this process is irrelevant” Jesus. Fucking. Christ.The only things I could possibly suggest in this case would be to call the agency he supposedly sees to verify that he’s even going there at all because as his spouse, she should be privy to non-specific questions about attendance (not even asking the day or what time he goes), or tbh she should give those two assholes what they clearly want: disappear from their lives by divorcing him after the birth and leaving his name off the certificate. Fuck those dudes, they need therapy for real.Yeah, she should ban then from the delivery room (and also from her life from that point onwards), not just because you really don’t want all the weird funerary vibes at such a vulnerable moment, but because the FIL at least, and probably the husband, is definitely trying to kill her.I mean come on, he’s trying to ban her from using pain medication during the delivery, and claiming that medical intervention is inherently bad. That’s not going to guarantee that she dies in childbirth, but it’ll certainly increase her chances. And if they’re willing to do that, then what’s really stopping them from finishing them off some other way if it doesn’t work?if you want to read the whole thing, the thread is here. tbh I’m keeping an eye on it to bc I really really hope she doesn’t die.i feel that she is profoundly unsafe. all those things of hers they’re packing up? she should have them sent to her mom’s (or sis or whatever) - and then she herself should also go to her mom’s. move the hell OUT of that situation; file for divorce omg. ban them from the delivery room? hell she should get a court order against them being near her anywhere at all.this is bad.Reading through this I’m convinced that the FIL straight up killed his wife, the fact that he not only doesn’t take her life and comfort into consideration, seemingly bragged about being a single dad and to top it off, has raised his son to be an almost carbon copy of himself is horrifying. I hope she gets herself out of this situation and gets restraining orders on both of them bc Jesus ChristYO there was an update to this a while back - she’s staying with her parents and filing for divorce.oh thank fuckbtw- tell your nurses (and doctors) about anyone you dont want with you. they can and will keep them from seeing you in the delivery room and while ur at the hospital recovering. -- source link
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