licieoic:thestarfishdancer:omgwtfmia:courtnashe:gogogoeties:itsy8itsyspiders8log:the-doctors-sexiest
licieoic:thestarfishdancer:omgwtfmia:courtnashe:gogogoeties:itsy8itsyspiders8log:the-doctors-sexiest-companion:So I posted this on facebook and long story short 50 shades of shade happened in the comments. link 1 | link 2I never usually reblog informational stuff. But in this case it is something I feel very strongly about.This, because more people need to see that 50 shades is nothing more then gloryfied abuse.God I hate how hugely incorrect 50 shades of gray is about bdsm and it promotes abuse so much.Say it louderLook, I read and enjoy some dark fic, but the problem with 50 Shades is that it presents itself as consent, as safe, as healthy, and it isn’t. This is already a long post and I always hesitate adding to long posts, but this is something I feel SO strongly about. 50 Shades is abuse. It is presented as romantic and consenting, and it is NOT.I know a couple different women who WERE, in fact, kidnapped, brought to a rural location they were unfamiliar with, and forced into a 24-7 TPE situation. Except it wasn’t TPE, because it wasn’t consented, it was slavery. They were forced to do things and if even one person refused, they were ALL punished.This is something that REALLY happens. It should NEVER be glamorized and depicted as titillation. It is WRONG on every level.50 Shades is nothing but bad fanfiction. Never mistake it for what a real BDSM relationship is like. Know that it is abuse. -- source link