amysubmits:mind-breaker:crotchetybushtit:50shadesofacceptance:superdodirty:it ok to not be readyPlea
amysubmits:mind-breaker:crotchetybushtit:50shadesofacceptance:superdodirty:it ok to not be readyPlease spread this shit like wildfire. People go on and sit through the whole experience and they’re uncomfortable because they just want to please their partner and they don’t tell them that they want to stop because they are not ready. It’s okay not to be ready. notice here that consent is revoked without ever saying no and consent goes so far beyond yes/no!!!!!!It is ok to say no It doesn’t have to just be not being ready, of course. Sometimes it’s something you’ve done together before with euphorbia but it just isn’t working with your headspace that day, or you got triggered somehow, or whatever else. I think we all should try to take responsibility for saying ‘no’ when we need to. But it’s also really helpful to have a partner who looks out for the uncomfortable ‘yes’ that probably should be a no. -- source link
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