enigmatic-being: elfvenomm:biyaself: I know grown ass people who say “this just the way I am” alllll
enigmatic-being: elfvenomm: biyaself: I know grown ass people who say “this just the way I am” alllll the time Recognizing your own toxic behaviour is peak adulting. You don’t stop learning once you turn 18+. My dad is almost 70 and always says he’s still growing, changing, and learning. That’s what life is, an ongoing experience that you gotta be open for change in. “That’s just how I am” is bullshit, you don’t like it or you see it affects the ones you love negatively, you change that shit. this is genuine authenticity… not the bullshit type of #authenticity where you just let your bullshit hangout as if there is nothing wrong with your unhealthy habits and attitude I really need to take notes high key -- source link