kefria:25 yearsTomorrow is our anniversary. We have been married for 17 years and together for 25. W
kefria:25 yearsTomorrow is our anniversary. We have been married for 17 years and together for 25. We lived in 3 countries, lost jobs and found different talents in ourselves. We have 3 beautiful kids, lost people we love and found unexpected friendships. We live and still have the feeling we pretend being grown-ups. Not everything was sunshine and rainbows. We had our hard times as well. But you have been there with me and for me. When my mom got terminal ill you took over everything. Put your job on pause to take care of the kids and the house so I could full time be there for my mom. You did it without even raising an eyebrow. As if it was the most natural thing in the world. This summer I found the courage to talk to you about my desires and wishes. What I was discovering about myself. This time both your eyebrows rose. You had a hard time seeing yourself in the role of a dominant. Didn’t want a woman to follow orders and really…… spanking me or hurting me? Out of the question! Throughout the summer we talked a lot. After your first “shock” you really listened to me. Made me feel safe to open up and be vulnerable. It was scary but also exciting. You put in the work. Reading up about it. Now half a year later we are on our most exciting adventure of our marriage (of our lives even). We are still learning and shaping up what works for us. We stumble, fall and get back up. Giving up control to you, made me realized just how much control I took in this relationship. We have new rules and exciting play times. I am discovering so much about myself and feel like I am 18 again exploring ourselves in new ways.The most valuable experience of this journey is to see you grow in your role. To see “my thing” change into OUR lifestyle. You were always handsome but you’re irresistible now. You walk up straighter, your head up high. Even friends and family see the changes. You start to really enjoy your new found dominance (or rediscovering it). Your creativity astounds me in and outside our bed. You’re playful, loving but strict and unbending. You truly SEE me now for who I am now.You have always been the love of my life. Now I can call you my Dominant (husband) as well. It is an honor to serve you and I am so so so proud of you. Your Kitten -- source link
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