krismichelle429:fuckmethroughthesheets:theladyjanedoe:clearmind-healthybeing:lawdyshawdy:clearmind-h
krismichelle429:fuckmethroughthesheets:theladyjanedoe:clearmind-healthybeing:lawdyshawdy:clearmind-healthybeing:gangzx:pharaohmangos:bpdstri:personal-insane-asylum:teaforyourginaa:xlovelyxhavocx:juliawiinchester:juliawiinchester:juliawiinchester:I hate menCan we bring this back? He’s the reason I started carrying knives everywhere… One time he saw me inside of a liquor store and I refused to step outside until he finally left.. AN HOUR LATER. He just stood there waiting for me to leave the store. Ugh. I’m glad I’m across the country from this creep.Oh he also stopped by my work EVERYDAY to ask me out and EVERYDAY I would say “no thank you” it got to the point that whenever I saw his car pull up I would tell my boss and then go hide in the back room. He honestly terrified me.Men are fucking terrifying, I once had some random dude stalk me at work because I smiled at him. … something you get in trouble for if you don’t do when in customer service!what the actual fuckEverytime a guy tries to describe himself to me as a nice guy and that i shouldn’t be afraid, my warning siren in my head gets louder.protip, people who are actually nice, don’t usually feel the need to tell everyone how nice they are.Men feel so entitled sometimes. It’s scary to watch the interactions sometimes.okay I understand this for the most part but seriously some people needa fuck off generalizing men as this terrible group of people. “men feel so entitled sometimes” like bitch you can’t tell me women don’t think they own everything every once in a while too don’t make this a gender thingIt is a gender thing. Why is it that 90% of the men I meet are entitled to some degree that’s toxic? Whereas 3% of women I’ve met are toxically entitled. This is about gender. It’s not a common thing to hear that a woman came into a man’s work just to ask him out daily. She doesn’t wait outside buildings for him. She doesn’t harass him constantly instead of just taking no for an answer. Yet almost every single guy that has ever been interested in me can’t take a hint, thinks they’re the shit, thinks they’re better than me when there shouldn’t be any competition. Women don’t make this shit up. Why is it that you can ask the majority of women and they’ll tell you that they’ve met guys like this or like this in some degree? It’s because men aren’t shit because they have some weird entitled complex.It is a gender thing, and as men we need to stop it. I grew up with sisters so I saw it firsthand. Dudes would get their names off credit card receipts at restaurants and ask around to get their numbers. Call the house non-stop til me or one of my brothers threatened to beat that ass. I’ve had to run dudes out of parking lots because they were waiting for a female co worker to come outside. It’s real. Don’t get angry if they’re not talking to you, just be part of the solution. Your boy tell you he riding by a girl’s work to ask her out? Tell him to leave her alone. Your nephew riding by his ex’s house to see who she with? Pull him to the side and say that stalking shit gotta go. The truth is half the shit our friends do we would call a woman a crazy bitch for doing. So call your friend a crazy bitch too. There’s a time and place and work ain’t it. And if she say no then take that no. It don’t mean maybe. Pressure is not sweet or romantic, it perpetuates rape culture. Sorry I rambled so long. But be part of the solution.^^^When homie said, “don’t make this a gender thing,” I went and got popcorn to watch him get DRAGGED. I was not disappointed. I had a guy last fall find me on Twitter because I was nice to him in the McDonald’s drive thru. Y'ALL. I was 26 at the time and he was maybe 18. That’s crazy. Luckily, when he contacted me, I told him I wasn’t available and in a major plot twist, he said thanks and moved on about his business after saying it was nice to have met me. Still, this doesn’t negate the bizarre story I got about him telling his cousin about me and that person somehow finding me on the internet. Weird. Super weird.“Pressure is not sweet or romantic, it perpetuates rape culture.”On a more general note, pressure is just rude. There is no context wherein bothering someone non-stop until they say ‘yes’ can be called sweet. Not in romance, not in friendship, not in family, not with strangers- it’s never appropriate. At best it’s annoying, and at worst it’s sadistic and dangerous. -- source link