socalsummers: I have so many men message me. How can I help my wife/girlfriend feel better about her
socalsummers: I have so many men message me. How can I help my wife/girlfriend feel better about herself? It breaks my heart. I’ve been that wife, for years. There was nothing my husband could say or do. He constantly told me I was beautiful. With words and actions. I don’t know what a man can do but be supportive. Encourage her to get involved in the body positive/self love community. My flavour is very sexy. It dosnt appeal to some, others it’s exactly what they need. I was inspired by, and it changed my life when I saw other women on here that were not ur typical air brushed size 2 models being sexy. Like actually owning their sexuality and having fun with it. It was something I lacked, didn’t think I deserved because I was bigger. I started reading all the comments and realized hell, maybe there are actually men out there that like my body type. Maybe my husband wasn’t lying. And so many women will say to me “why do you need a man’s approval it’s got nothing to do with men”. Well…..for me it did. I’ve been married a long time and I believe you should want your spouse to find you attractive. Try living 8 years believing he is just settling…..ya….thats hell. For both of you. A man’s opinion is very important. Not saying you should ever base your self worth on it. That’s idiotic. But if you are in a relationship and your spouse is saying good things to you, LISTEN! Most people are to lazy to take out the trash, do you really think they are going to hang around telling you shit they don’t believe? It’s one of the beautiful things about being in a good relationship when your man wants you to feel good. I wish like hell I could put this into perfect words. It’s painful for both sides Beautifully said -- source link