lavenderpoetrycafe:HOW TO HEAL PATRIARCHY 101: force boundaries on what is COLLABORATIVE vs. COMBAT
lavenderpoetrycafe:HOW TO HEAL PATRIARCHY 101: force boundaries on what is COLLABORATIVE vs. COMBATIVEI’m going to PRINT THIS OUT and put it on the refrigerator for my husband. HINT: if he won’t listen to you – write the message on the wallso you say, whoa that’s destruction, MINOR ANARCHY! it will force him to acknowledge YOUR SIDE and fixed with a coat of paint. He’ll scream becuz you crossed a line, but the cops, landlord will laugh because it’s a coat of paint, that even when re-rented would be re-painted. And they will get even a “better” chuckle if what you write on the wall is really profound or funny. so my first step is …. this goes on the frig, if that’s too subtle …. bathroom walls across from toilets are great personal spaces to make your side heard. The may not believe in the merits of therapy or psychology but you can still force them to stop the “crazy-making” avoidance techniques. -- source link