thebambinogirl: flr-lifestyle: Its true even in those vanilla relationships where people pretend its
thebambinogirl: flr-lifestyle: Its true even in those vanilla relationships where people pretend its equal. The Woman still rules. “Happy wife happy life” was around long before femdom and FLRs. If everyone would just be real FLR would be the norm. Comments welcome ! I was a submissive for many years for my husband and have done many things I would never had thought of ever doing to include sex with multiple men and women…. but as time went on I became more of the dominant and he agreed many years I ago if we tried it his way and we grew tired of it we could switch roles. We have done that and he has admitted to being happier as the submissive. Now instead of having sex with other men because I had to, I have sex with them because I want to. Hubby admitted he enjoyed seeing other men with large cocks fuck me because his penis is truly on the smaller size….less than 5 1/2” erect. So once in awhile he still gets to see that happen or the result of!! But now a days if I am not happy…no one is happy!! My turn and my way!! He admitted he use to make me wear diapers as a form of control and dependency….now I enjoy keeping his small penis in a cage as one of my many ways of controlling him and he seems not to mind as much as he use to…I am no longer woke up by his cries of pain during the night because his penis has also learned to be under my control and erections are only allowed when I allow them. I don’t want to say we live the FLR lifestyle completely….I have taken a lot of good ideas I have observed from the FLR lifestyle which mainly includes chastity with some humiliation. I am bi-sexual and have had a lifelong girlfriend who has been part of our lifestyle even while I was a submissive. She has gone from changing my diapers to being the one who is charged with giving hubby corporal punishment when needed. I find having her spank or paddle him while I observe makes it just a little more humiliating for him. That is another behavior modification suggestion I use from the FLR lifestyle. I usually don’t embarrass him in public and generally no one who sees us in public would ever know I am now in charge of our house! OMG! Sooo lucky to have found themselves in such a great relationship. ❤ -- source link
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