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mylesbianheartblr: nkrockz23: mylesbianheartblr: nkrockz23: jturn: flamboyant-dog: jturn: who the fuck funded this study you can find this out by spending 5 minutes in a sauna YOU SPEND 5 MINUTES IN THE SAUNA WITH A FUCKING BEAR??? hun I… don’t….understand? And the comments are making me scared to Google this. hun Okay, I think I’m better off not knowing…. It’s really not that scary, I promise!Okay, super quick primer for ya. I just know the basics, because I’m a lesbian, not a gay man.So, have you ever heard any of the terminology gays and lesbians use to describe themselves?You know. Top/bottom, which is especially relevant in the case of gay men, us lesbians use butch/femme to state how masculine/feminine a lesbian is… there are a lot of terms in our communities, really. They’re full of history and can be super interesting to read up on. Obviously I don’t really research a lot of gay slang, so I don’t know the nuances of their terminology.Anyway, ‘bear’ is a gay slang term.So, you have the twinks. They’re the youthful, hairless, slim gay men. It’s a term that’s generally used to describe gays in their teens to their early twenties (as twinks are also known to be the ones to start the party, and generally you aren’t really able to party as much the older you get.) Think of the boys hanging out half naked on a Pride Parade Float. Yup. That’s a twink.So, what’s a bear then? Well, a bear is essentially used to described the burlier, hairier gay guys. They’re generally viewed as the hyper-masculine “who would ever have thought Joe was gay with all his flannel and his enthusiasm for sports and beer” type of gay. You can kind of see it. Bears are big, and hairy. We often talk of ‘bear hugs’ when we feel completely enveloped in someone’s arms. They’re big and strong. The middle ground is called an otter, when you’re hairier than a twink, but slimmer than a bear. Obviously there’s a lot of other terms, as I said, such as ‘cubby’ etc, so. This is really just three terms.So. Bears enjoys gay oral sex in saunas. That would call for an eggplant emoji. -- source link