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vaginaandmagirl: consort-of-the-queen: vaginaandmagirl: consort-of-the-queen: Seem to recall @vaginaandmagirl wistfully speaking of window moments with @thedominanthand… Ha! Very true.Man. Having an exhibitionist streak is tough without living in high-rises. ;){Hey, it’s early in the morning here, but still - time to share a divisive opinion -fun!- : IMO, unless you have the consent of those who might see you, exhibitionism just isn’t…right. Being somewhere it’s expected -aka a club/private party- or in a high-rise where someone seeing you is _probably_ a looky-loo into windows anyway, that’s different -And we go do it with the lights off so if someone wants to see us, they really need to want to and WORK for it.- Exposure or sex otherwise resulting in persons whom have not consented to see you is an example of serious disregard to others safety and comfort. A good example of this is flashing. I see lots of pic posts here of females flashing boobs or plugs in public to a camera with comments about how hot that is or how “daddy loves it”. As someone who’s STILL haunted by being flashed by an adult man when I was 14, I can tell you - it’s tantamount to rape if you don’t consider the _consent_ of those who _may_ see you. Flash that plug in an otherwise unoccupied elevator or hall. Flash your tits at a party where others expect that sort of thing. Don’t do it in a grocery aisle or at a restaurant, etc. You can disagree with me - but when you consider the fact that exhibitionism is the definitively the same thing whether it’s a gorgeous couple getting off on people watching or a nasty old man getting off on it by exposing himself to a young kid - CONSENT IS EVERYTHING. CONSENT IS EVERYTHING. And FWIW, I say that as someone who finds exhibitionism a HUGE turn-on.} Respectfully disagree… because there’s no way to establish a line in the sand for all, and there are way too many double standards in the world today. Sorry - I’m just in a disagreeable mood towards political correctness these days. This is NOT directed at VMA (you know I’m a card carrying member of the fan club lady ) but at society in general. At any given moment in time or place in the world, there is a virtually INFINITE number a person can look or direction - yet only one of those is AT ME. Anyone remember hearing someone say “Don’t like it, don’t look at it” when they were a kid?Gauges in people’s ears are ridiculous to me. I think guys wearing sandals anywhere except on a beach is a no-no. Tattoos above the neckline? Not together with that either. If I voice these opinions of mine, I’m a judgmental bastard. But I’m supposed to put up with someone’s dirty look for patting the queens bottom when we’re standing in line somewhere? Or accept their snarky comment for french kissing her in public instead of giving her a chaste peck on the cheek?Uh uh, best take that shit somewhere else skippy. Judge not, less thee be judged yourself. Oh goodness, that’s perfectly fine! I’m certainly not referring to public displays of affection! Particularly those we all know when and where are more or less appropriate.In other words, there’s a HUGE difference between the public displays of affection we all as society more or less consent to the moment we walk out the door and straight up public sex acts.I’m talking about walking in public and seeing a chic flashing her butt plug to her partner which is so far on the opposite end of the spectrum of patting a woman’s ass in public - it’s hard to believe they would both constitute ass play (but they do).People in the BDSM community fight sexual stigma frequently enough - those in it who break the law and violate the consent of others just to get off in public are NOT helping. I very much agree with @vaginaandmagirl here. Also that PDA is different. But this kind of explains why I often feel uncomfortable (if turned on) at the idea of exhibitionism. I have a strong desire to avoid making anyone uncomfortable. -- source link