naughtymusings: Five mistakes guys should never make in bed:I have received a lot of messages about
naughtymusings: Five mistakes guys should never make in bed:I have received a lot of messages about guys asking what they can do better do find girls like me. You can’t find girls like me because you don’t notice that you already have one. You already have an amazing girl, but you aren’t doing what you need to in order to bring out the best in her. So, to help you, here’s a list of 5 things that you should keep in mind in bed!1. Not paying attention outside of sex or doing your due diligence:That’s right, the first mistake guys make in bed is outside the bedroom. If you’re only paying attention to me in bed, that tells me that you only want one thing - sex. Imagine how that makes us girls feel. Just because we’ve been together for years doesn’t mean we still dont want to go on dates, check out the new club that just opened up, etc. Just because we live together doesn’t mean we can’t go away together. And just because we slept together the night before doesn’t mean I still don’t want to know how hot I look the next morning. Yes I demand attention, all the time, 24/7, not just when we are naked together.Shave. Everywhere. I don’t want hair in my mouth when I’m kissing you or deepthroating you. You know I like it. Seriously, put in some effort. Have a basic sense of hygiene. Just remembered that you haven’t taken a shower in 2 days? That’s fine, ask me to join you in the shower!2. Using turnoff words and comparisons:I love dirty talk and role play. LOVE IT. Call me a dirty bitch all you want. Call me princess, catwoman, monica belluci and dungeon master all you want. But never call me a whore, a slut and don’t say stupid shit like “oh baby you fuck so good you were probably a sex slave in a past life.” Know what is sexy and what is not. If you are unsure, talk to me. But if we’ve together for a while now, I expect you to know already what I like and what I don’t. Some women may love being compared to your hot aunt or that hot middle school teacher you had, NOT me! No way.3. Surprising me in bad ways:Don’t cum in my mouth without letting me know. Don’t start making love with a spanking when you’ve not warmed me up yet. Don’t go from taking your pants off to intercourse in 5 seconds. In fact, wait sometimes and let me take your pants off! Yes I’ve done all that before and yes I’ve enjoyed all of that (yes, I have! Girls are human too and we love being naughty!) But that doesn’t mean that springing such acts of sex on me won’t turn me off. Choose your moments wisely, if in doubt, talk, ask. Tell me what you’re thinking. If you want to cum, wherever that may be and even if you’ve cum in my mouth a hundred times before, still ASK, say please! It tells me that you’ve not taken me for granted. Makes me feel respected.4. Not appreciating that I do special things for you:Did I suck your cock for 30 mins? Or wake you up in the morning with a blowjob? Swallow your cum and make you feel like a king? There’s nothing intrinsically pleasurable for me in doing those and I only do them for your pleasure! But I like doing them because I want to make you feel special. Yes okay I’ll admit that I love blowjobs too and I have an oral fetish! But, if you aren’t vocal about appreciating me, why should I keep doing them? If I went out of my way, even if it’s not new and specially if I do it again and again, I expect MORE appreciation, not less or the same.5. Stopping just because you came:Imagine this. We’ve been having sex for a while, it feels amazing and we don’t know when you end and I begin. All of a sudden it stops and you didn’t cum yet. Does that feel bad? Yes? That’s what guys do to girls almost every time. The show ends with him ejaculating, leaving her high, wet and wanting more, with no reciprocation. What am I supposed to do know that you came all over me, zoned out and fell asleep? Look at it from my perspective, what kind of an asshole are you being? Yes, I expect a momentary pause because you came, but I don’t expect the show to stop. In fact, now I expect you to give EVERYTHING you have and pour yourself on me in your pursuit to making me cum. In the very least, I expect you to hold me tight and kiss me, like REALLY kiss me. With an overabundance of gratitude and love.Did you cum in my mouth or on my face and don’t wanna kiss me now because I have cum on my lips? What the fuck kind of hypocrite are you? Seriously? Can you seriously expect ANY girl to enjoy your cum if you are disgusted by it? What the hell is wrong with you? In the end, the person you are matters more than these individual acts. So be the person who your girl is proud to be with, that is the pride that will open her up in ways you cannot imagine. -- source link