aegipan-omnicorn:jeanjauthor:ao3commentoftheday:You’ve heard of lemons and the Citrus Scale? Well, w
aegipan-omnicorn:jeanjauthor:ao3commentoftheday:You’ve heard of lemons and the Citrus Scale? Well, what about KINKTOMATO?KINKTOMATO is an important concept in fandom. It’s a humourous re-spelling of YKINMKATO - Your Kink Is Not My Kink (And That’s OK). This is the idea that if you don’t like a particular kink or ship etc, that’s fine but you don’t need to attack or shame the people who do. Just leave them alone to enjoy their fics and art in peace and ask that they do the same in return. KINKTOMATO is the “you do you” of fandom. It’s the “whatever floats your boat” of leaving other people alone. It’s an easy and judgement-free way of hoping that your fellow fans enjoy their content as much as you enjoy yours and understanding that different folks like different strokes. Having preferences is human. Having squicks is totally normal. Everyone has NOTPs or lines they don’t want to cross. But fandom is a large group of diverse people with varying tastes and interests and backgrounds. Infinite Diversity in Infinite Combinations. Ship and let ship. Don’t like? Don’t read. Your kink is not my kink, and that’s okay. This, writers.And yes, do bring back “squick” because if it makes you go “ew, ick” then that’s a squick, or a hard “uh no NOT for me” it’s a squick. (Something that’s genuinely triggering will give you symptoms like hyperventillating, shaking hands, cold sweats, nausea, the feeling like you’re gonna faint, etc, but if it just makes you go “ew, ick” and scrunches your face in distaste, then that’s a squick, my friend.)[Image description: a stylish photo of three tomatoes arranged from large to small. San serif text centered on each tomato reads: (Your kink is not my kink) (&) (that’s okay). Description ends]Reblogging for the excellent description of the difference between “Squick” and “trigger.” Yes, please bring “squick” back. It’s a very good onomatopoetic word. And if we can get in in a standard dictionary, we can use it in Scrabble[TM]. -- source link