kinkykittengirl: babygirladrift: Given where I am in life, I struggle the most with feeling like my
kinkykittengirl: babygirladrift: Given where I am in life, I struggle the most with feeling like my submissive nature and desires makes me very odd. I am tired of trying to explain who I am across a restaurant table. Maybe a portable blackboard and Venn diagram would help. Men think it’s all a dream come true until they start to realize there are expectations and responsibilities intrinsic to the dynamic. Gentlemen, you don’t get something like this for nothing. Not even in 21st century America. Sorry, not sorry. In summary, I’m tired. Think really hard before embarking on this path. Happy birthday, Spice. I hope it’s an amazing day, and even better year. “Men think it’s a dream come true until they start to realize there are expectations and responsibilities intrinsic to the dynamic.” That line tho. That speaks to me. So many guys are all about the “kinky girl into rough sex” but then when they realize that bdsm is only like 10% about sex, it’s everything else that makes bdsm relationships what they are. Being in a bdsm dynamic is hard, it’s more than just rough sex. For a dominant it means leading and guiding your partner, having rules and expectations in place, for both it’s all about constant communication and trust, and so much more. Then when they fail to see why rough sex isn’t enough to sustain the dynamic things get confusing. As submissives we need so so much more than that. I could not have said it better. Thank you @babygirladrift and @kinkykittengirl -- source link