pusheen-the-radfem: greenwire:tchaikovskaya:tchaikovskaya:imagine writing all this out and not reali
pusheen-the-radfem: greenwire:tchaikovskaya:tchaikovskaya:imagine writing all this out and not realizing your wife is insanely cool and sexy and that you are a giant loser….. wow queen please divorce him and come to my house to drink wine with me and tell me about ancient textiles who ARE these basic-ass men? there was the guy who was dating a straight Ms. Frizzle, there was the guy who ruined his girlfriend’s plant room, there was the guy who complained about his girlfriend’s poisonous plant collection and huge bed, and the guy who ruined his girlfriend’s origami stars out of spite, oh and the guy who cut up his girlfriend’s quilt because he was jealous of her knitting hobby, and that’s just from memory. It’s like men seek out the coolest, most individual women they can find, and then they try to break them down so they’ll fit into a cookie cutter mold of what a woman should be. You see these men make fun of “basic bitches” for the last fucking decade but then they turn around and post shit like this. And what about men who don’t need help manipulating women and therefore don’t have to post to advice websites like reddit? Look maybe I’m biased because I don’t understand het relationships with men or whatever, but there’s no way a relationship that includes any of this is worth it. I don’t think you’re biased at all. I swear to god, every man I’ve ever met (even the semi nice ones) are the most boring people on the planet. and what’s worse, they think that they’re interesting, and mansplaining their boring non-interests to you is a great way to have a conversation.when I was a teenager and was trying to comphet (thank GOD that never lead anywhere), I would sit there and listen to some basic bro (or worse, a pretentious artiste) babble on add nauseum about shit he either a) didn’t actually know anything about or b) had the worst take possible on. and I would sit through it and think I, what, needed it? needed them?plus it’s a power trip for them. to take a strong, fun, independent, curious, fabulous live-wire of a woman and subdue her and turn her into a house-mouse that will basically be their sex-slave/mother. conversely, practically every woman I meet is awesome and interesting and has done something really remarkable and is really excited to SHARE it with you, instead of just ramming it down your throat for you to go ‘wow u r the most amazing ever’.and men get narrower with time. their emotional degeneracy advances, and they get exponentially worse at making and keeping friends and instead dump all their emotional needs on their wives. however these women have no trouble being normal people, so to add insult to injury they then start to resent their wives and do petty, nasty, evil shit like this.tl;dr men are boring garbage. noone needs them. HOBBIES NOT HUBBIES -- source link