create-rainbows:alikedissolving:jadiil:I just found this good girl gina meme thing and i am shocked
create-rainbows:alikedissolving:jadiil:I just found this good girl gina meme thing and i am shocked people aren’t complaining over it tbhdon’t get me wrong i like to have a little bit of banter as much as the next person, I very rarely take offense to stuff online but this shit is just misogyny and the fact it’s played up as “this is what good should girls do” and nobody has called it out as yet is just wrong. smhit’s pretty much summed up perfectly in this post here;What this meme really is:No, sometimes it’s “doesn’t not have sex with you.”I was literally just looking through tags to see if anyone felt the same way these meme are disgusting and hurtful and guys who think like this are shit. Take your misogynistic narcissistic ass home.This meme exists because high maintenance girls take personal offence and lash out about the stupidest of things and guys are relieved when they find a girl who’s so damn easy going. That’s what this is. I take pride in being this kind of girl. It’s so nice not having a relationship complicated buy having someone walk on eggshells for fear of accidentally saying something that may offend the other person. My boyfriend thinks like this and he is absolutely the most incredible, understanding, loving, caring, gentle guy I’ve ever met. Of course he’s not perfect but he’s far from misogynistic.If you’re offended by this shit then fine, be offended by it, but don’t try and drag the rest of us in to it with you. We don’t all feel the same way as you and I’d really appreciate it if you radfems would stop giving the rest of womankind a bad name… it makes it really hard to hang out with the guys when they all start to think that we all think the same way as you. Be offended, protest, stand up for what you believe in… but quit trying to convince people that all women feel the same way as you or that they should all feel the same way as you.The first one did seem kind of icky to me, by its implication of transaction. That may not have been intended.As for the others, I think a stretch is required to find the misogyny. Presumably these instances are already cherry-picked to make such a point. A survey of the examples found at quickmeme reveals a breadth of character attributes not represented here.The “everyday situation … has sex with you” reduction is interesting in itself. I don’t know if it was created as an iteration of this meme or as a critique of it, but the message, the hidden corollary, seems to be that some women require (or believe they should) specific reasons or special circumstance to have sex. Would such a mindset count as internalized misogyny? -- source link