busybeatalks: sexsvmbol: lusty-me:Let’s talk about vaginal lips. I spent the better part of two year
busybeatalks: sexsvmbol: lusty-me:Let’s talk about vaginal lips. I spent the better part of two years with a “lover” who never complimented my physical appearance, or even any of my internal attributes. That does something to your self-esteem, and it is bound to affect anyone in a negative light. When you’ve got this significant other who doesn’t even attempt to lift you up, to make you feel good, you begin to wonder if you deserve to feel good at all–if you even have any positive attributes. I was so self-conscious about my vaginal lips (amongst other body parts) because he simply never paid any attention to them. Over the course of two years, this person gave me oral sex a handful of times at most. So I started to wonder: what the fuck is wrong with my vagina? I was watching mainstream porn featuring vaginal lips that are completely shaven, completely pink, completely tucked away by the outer vaginal lips, only to be revealed as some barbie-like sexual parts. Nothing wrong with those who have lips like that, of course, but where the fuck were the women who had vaginal lips like mine? Who were hairy, whose labia wasn’t this pearly pink color, whose vaginal lips protruded out proudly instead of being tucked behind out of sight? I never saw them. Sure–there are some feminist porns, but the fact of the matter is, body diversity just isn’t featured in mainstream porn. DON’T LET THIS HURT YOU. You are fucking beautiful–I am fucking beautiful, we are all fucking beautiful. Since then I’ve taken a different lover (three years in October) who worships every square inch of my body, who tells me I am beautiful on a very regular basis. Who tells me my pussy is so pretty before he sticks his face between my legs and worships it like he needs my taste to breathe. But this isn’t necessary. Self-love often comes easier when you have someone to push you along the journey, but all anyone truly needs to love themselves, is themselves. Love yourself. If you have to pretend until you truly feel it, pretend. You are beautiful. You are worthy of love. I love you. And your body is perfect. All of it.Inspiring words from someone that needs absolutely no introduction, naked-yogi :-). Such a stunning photo too! All the kisses x This made me tear up, I’ve struggled w this my entire life and was in a similar situation, and just wow yeah thank you naked-yogi, bless you. This resonates really deeply with my soul. -- source link