marquiseoftease:nice-predator: thefemdomdiary:missv2you: thefemdomdiary:That look. I love it when my
marquiseoftease:nice-predator: thefemdomdiary:missv2you: thefemdomdiary:That look. I love it when my sub flirts, when he initiates. I always, always have the option to say no, or to change the pace or dynamic. But I want him to always feel free to want me, and to show it. The biggest turnoff I’ve had with just about every male sub I’ve had around me, is the fact that they never initiate. I will not have anyone around me who is like that in the future. Having to *always*, yes, ALWAYS, order someone to touch me does absolutely nothing for my self esteem. Exactly. EXACTLY. Ultimately, it crushes my desire because I resent having to make it an order. Ms Kay I am relieved to hear other dommes say this! When I first experimented as a dominant, I thought there was something wrong and off-putting with me. I get that subs want to feel subjugated; but it is a fine line between acting helpless and acting as if I am outright unwanted and borderline disgusting.I love touch and connection, I love feeling desired. Having to force someone at gunpoint to demonstrate interest in me every damn time killed my enthusiasm. Ladies, I’m going to jump on that exact train! Where exactly is it written that the dominant has to do all the “work”?He wants me? Desires me? To be used by me? He better make a spectacular show out of it!When his submission isn’t but, in actual fact, laziness, he can waltz out the door. Reblogged since I wish we saw more conversations like this between dommes. I think it would also make subs more realistic and also more attentive to service as a duty. -- source link
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