lillybgoddess:MMF vs. MFMI had a completely different topic to discuss today but due to a couple who

lillybgoddess:MMF vs. MFMI had a completely different topic to discuss today but due to a couple who apparently needed some education, I have changed it entirely. And here is what I want all of you to do. I want you to read through this and comment on whether you agree or disagree. I have been in this lifestyle long enough to understand the ins and the outs. I have a very good idea how it works and what it is. Dont get me wrong, I do know that everyone does things differently. I understand that everyone in this lifestyle has their own rules and Kinks. But, let’s not confuse lifestyles shall we! The typical Hotwife (Stag/Vixen) couple is a Male and a Female who have agreed to give freedom to the Vixen to have sex with other men for the gratification of the couple themselves. This same couple usually always entails a straight or bi female and a Straight Alpha Male. So when there is interaction with this couple and a Bull, (who is also typically straight)…we use the letters MFM. This indicates 2 straight men and 1 woman having a 3some. It is possible to have 2 bi men and one woman who enjoy getting together mutually for the pleasure of all involved. We use the letters MMF for this kind of interaction. This is not Hotwifing though. This is more into the realm of swinging. Nothing wrong with either of that is what you’re into. (I was called homophobic today because of this btw. Lol) Cuckolding is another form of Hotwifing that does this MMF thing. Most of the time this involves 2 bi males and a female. It also can involve humiliation of the husband. I do not call this man a Stag because a Stag is an alpha of a different lifestyle. My form of Hotwifing is NOT Cuckolding. My Stag is straight. I am Bi. We both also enjoy swinging. But do not be confused by the differences. Hotwifing is not about the sexual pleasure of all 3 involved enjoying all 3 involved. If you want to do that and it is your thing, that’s fine but it is merely a 3some. The wife no longer becomes the point of attention and pleasure. Hotwifing dominates HER…not the 2 men involved. It is about her freedom of play. It is about her as the center of attention by both the Stag and the Bull….unless you’re into the Cuckolding variety.I dont say all of this to take away from anyone’s preference of play. We all have our thing that we enjoy. But I have yet to discover Hotwifing of the Stag/Vixen variety to involve MMF. If you have chosen that style…Great! But is that really what Hotwifing is about? I dont think so! Lastly, if this explanation appears to be a problem for you, then dont take my word for it. Feel free to join the lifestyle and check the Stag/Vixen couples out. I’m pretty confident that you will find the same thing that we found. Stag= dominant straight alpha. Vixen= submissive bi or straight. Bull=semi dominant alpha as well but at the discretion of the Stag. This does not mean that in other forms of play..the male half of your relationship can’t be bi. Of course it can. But that is not the typical definition of a Stag/Vixen Hotwifing couple play. And no matter what lifestyle you enjoy, enjoy it to the fullest. There is no judging from me. Hell, I myself am Bi. Today I’m just clarifying definitions to a lifestyle that I’m very familiar with and practice. Now feel free to comment your thoughts but I’ll warn you that if you translate any of this into insulting BS, i will remove you from this page. Happy Hotwifing!This will be a weekly posting just for Hotwives, Stags, Bulls, and Swingers. Every Tuesday I will focus on your questions, comments, and statements of the Hotwife lifestyle. Feel free to direct all questions today through the submit feature of my Blog! Thank you and Happy Hotwifing! ~LillybGoddessFollow my other blog @hotwifelifestyle101 for all archived questions and episodes. Also all thing Hotwives! -- source link
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