daddys-naughty-acorn: We have all had our fair share of relationship fails. You go from one to the n

daddys-naughty-acorn: We have all had our fair share of relationship fails. You go from one to the next, swearing to everyone that this person is the next best thing in your life. You bring your partner home to meet mom and dad. You and your partner try so hard to fit into place even though it feels a little weird, admittedly, but neither of you will say it out loud. You even try to convince yourself that this is true love, because you’ve spent so much time trying so hard in every relationship you’ve had, and you’re always hopeful of the next best thing. That’s the thing… we all have a little hopeless romantic inside of us. I can admit, I’ve been there myself. I have spent countless seconds, minutes, hours, and days questioning my relationship through the good times and the bad, asking whether this person is the one. Questioning if we can make it through the bad times. Questioning if I really fell in love with my partner or in love with the idea of finding that special someone. The secret is, if you’re questioning it at all, thats not the one! And there is nothing wrong with that. I am writing this to tell all of you other hopelessly in love with the idea of falling in love, to not get that confused with what it actually feels like to fall in love. I met my soulmate. Yes, I said soulmate. I am positive that when the universe exploded, our atoms were ripped apart. But one night the stars aligned and here we are, connected together at last. I believe that every life we have lived through, we have met each other time and time again, because our connection is all too familiar to the heart and soul. It’s a complete selflessness in our mind, and body, a natural giving of care and affection, a softness in your voice and soul. I have never loved someone so deeply. It’s a feeling right from the center of your body; a warmth that radiates out through your belly with butterflies that never want to escape. It’s a connection I have never felt before. It’s a constant craving of the other. It’s a comfort of never feeling alone because you know you are connected on more than just a physical level. It’s an ache in your chest when you’re apart because your body wants to feel their embrace just as much as your soul. The very thought of a day on this earth without them can leave your chest tight as if your lungs cannot inhale, and make your throat close, making you gasp for every breath. How do I know that I am with my soulmate? How do I know that my partner is the one? It’s simple. I feel it from my soul within; if you don’t understand that, you have not found your soulmate yet. And if you have, then you know exactly what I am talking about. It sounds silly, but I have always kept a checklist in my mind of who the perfect person would be for me. I have been with so many partners, going over the list in my head. “Oh, they almost check off.” I would think. Or, “I can accept that there’s a few things that just doesn’t match.” What I have learned from this experience is, one, don’t make a checklist in your mind, and two, never settle for anyone who doesn’t feel that they have completed you and what you feel would be the perfect fit. I can honestly say, with all of my being, that I have met my other half who fully completes me. That’s why you don’t need a checklist. You just know because you feel fully fulfilled and complete on every level. It’s like the comfort of a perfectly full belly after finishing your last bite of desert and your taste buds are still tingling. It’s a cool breeze on a warm day. It’s complete peacefulness that you can feel from the inside to out. My partner is the peanut butter to my jelly, the pumpkin to my pie, the protein to my shakes, the honeysuckle to my honeybee. I believe without my partner, there is not full and complete me. Could I walk the earth a day without my other half? I believe that my destiny could never be fulfilled. I believe I would be an empty vessel going through the motions of life, but I would never be really living. My partner brings out the very best in me. I radiate a new light with my partner by my side. Because of the encouragement and full life of love that I now live, I have become a more positive, outgoing, peaceful, and hopeful individual, and I want to share it with the world. Don’t settle for any less than fulfillment and completion, because when you find it, you will know the feeling of hitting nirvana. -- source link
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