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firefly-flashes: firefly-flashes: thealphawithin: 80gritdom: thedomandmuse: http://thedomandmuse.adultshopping.com - Pleasure Awaits I do enjoy letting out that moan! For me it’s about the connection, taking time to find those spots that haven’t been touched in a long time, finding those that move from day to day, enjoying my body, enjoying giving me pleasure, excitement, building a massive fire in my body and watching as it gets out of control. It’s foreplay on steroids. It’s not about just cumming ( though that is nice),I can do that anytime. It’s about the passion, desire, intensity, animalistic, rawness, bringing every nervending in my body alive. That’s what a blowjob is to me. A lot of women seem to think that a blowjob is just about getting her man off and him going to sleep. That is truly not the case at least not for me. I would imagine it’s like hours of mental and physical foreplay for women. Showing you care enough to get you that worked up so you crave the release. @80gritdom Giving him a blowjob is not about getting him off.Okay, I mean, it *is*, but if that’s all you’re trying to do, you are entirely missing the point. It’s about paying attention. If you know your partner well, then you know all the little places where a tiny soft kiss makes him sigh and a delicate flick of your tongue makes him groan, and when and where the hot, wet suction of your mouth will make his head fall back and his eyes close in pleasure. If you don’t know your partner - fuck, even if you do - then take your time. Learn him. Listen to him. The sounds he makes, the way his hips shift and roll. The way every thing you do - or sometimes the things you don’t do, the things you tease him with the promise of and don’t deliver quite yet - affects him. Pay close fucking attention.He is the territory to be explored and all the cues he gives you are the map, the guidebook. Explore. Discover. Memorize the best spots and avoid the places that aren’t enjoyable. Take your time. And then race around and play in all the best spots over and over again. Revel in the brief moments this amazingly powerful man in your life give you leeway to enjoy him at his most vulnerable. Show off all the things you’ve learned about his body and what pleases him. And for fuck’s sake, enjoy it! Show him how much you love giving him pleasure. Show him how much it turns you on to tease and stoke and play with him. This is a marathon, not a sprint (although sprints can be fun sometimes). If you’re too shy/uncomfortable to speak up and tell him how much you love his cock (and I bet he will love every minute of you telling him how much you adore him and how wet it makes you and how bad you want to taste him - he needs to know you’re enjoying it, too - fucking moan around his dick and *mean it*!) Enjoy every moan and squirm and sigh you wring from him. They are yours. You earned them.Because if you don’t enjoy it, if you don’t take your time and pay attention, if you don’t use every second to show him how much you adore him (and his cock) you are missing the point of giving him a blowjob. Entirely.***Just my opinion, anyway. Also, although I wrote this regarding giving a blowjob to a D-type with a penis, please feel free to adjust the pronouns as it fits. If your D-type has a pussy, the same advice applies. The terrain is different, but how you approach oral shouldn’t. Take your time. Pay attention. Enjoy the fuck out of it. And have fun! -- source link