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frithislord:mistah-oso:someoneintheshadow456:mistah-oso:stop-stalin-and-suck-my-dick:northw0man:stop-stalin-and-suck-my-dick:northw0man:someone just shared this on fb but omfgI wonder why men, who are mocked and derided for ever expressing an emotion or claiming to suffer in any way, might seek out their girlfriend, the only human being it’s socially acceptable for them to talk about their feelings with, or else a female friend, who they might trust to take them seriously, to open up to about what’s bothering them.Like everyone has a right to tell someone they don’t have the energy or ability or mental state to play therapist but I guess it’s just the fashion of the last fifty years to actively mock men for trying to engage with someone and talk about their feelings. God forbid they try, right? lmao cry me a damn river sadman - dudes rip each other to shreds for expressing any emotion beyond anger and horniness and then act like it’s therefore women’s responsibility to shoulder their emotional burdens? how is that our problem? you all dump your shit on the women in your lives but then we try to tell you about something we’re going through (you know, like a balanced exchange, that women are accustomed to when dealing with other women) y'all are like “uh that sucks I guess” or “here’s what you should have done so that wouldn’t have happened to you.” OR! My favorite, “because of my half-ass attempt to support you emotionally, I am gonna try to get in your pants and call you a friend zoning bitch if you don’t comply” Like y'all are burdensome lmao you really think you should be getting our support for free. the entitlement!!! Also you know who won’t mock you? A therapist.I’m a woman @northw0maninteresting theory you have there. it would be a shame if someone were to test it. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/media-spotlight/201505/when-men-face-sexual-harassmentwhen men seek therapy, or asylum for abuse, they’re TURNED AWAY. and guess what gender has the majority of mental health and social work positions? men are more likely to be abused and raped and killed… sometimes by women and men are less likely to see their abuser go to jail. with how the US law is set up, a rapist can have their victim’s baby and force them in to poverty to pay for the child for 20 years. If feminism is about equality, that doesn’t seem very feminist now does it? Also the reason why alcoholism is so common among men is because it’s more socially acceptable for a man to drink himself to death than it is for him to talk about his problems. It’s a known fact that only depressed men go to bars and pubs. If we stopped calling men unmanly and pussies for seeing a therapist then maybe they would get help for their problems. i don’t think so, because we did just that… and their problems are laughed off. called paranoia. Sad but true -- source link