Over the last several weeks - people have contacted me, asking for clarification about spanking type
Over the last several weeks - people have contacted me, asking for clarification about spanking types, when i help them define which type they are looking for. There is a fair amount of confusion about the differences between Therapy and Discipline spanking - as well as non-spankers tend to define and think of all spanking as abuse or BSDM. It is critical to understand what type of spanking you are imagining. Some just want to have a bit of spanking in the bedroom like teacher / student - boss / secretary. This is Role Play or Sexy Spanking, for the lack of a better terminology. Others want to explore spanking, but they say it is weird as discipline, because they have done nothing wrong. Therapy spanking is generally thought of, without doing something wrong, maybe a stressful day, grumpy mood or such, and just to help focus - a simple spanking helps. Goal setting and issue resolution, also practiced regularly in homes that practice Domestic Discipline or Head of Household, the spanking tend to be like when some were punished when younger, where it is a more formal punishment to cleanse, comfort, communicate and ultimately offer forgiveness. Finally - hardcore, explored by many, is really the first step of exploration into scenes of BDSM. This uses a wide variety of implements and has a much higher form of pain threshhold. Above all - all forms need to be consensual and have safewords involved - where the exploration could be more intense. As always - enjoy the exploration!Finally - there is Hardcore Spanking - where it begins to lead to BDSM and a whole new level of trust and safeword and such - So, have fun and be safe!Art by Arkham Insanity. -- source link