domina-et-servus: Ultimately, the male comes to realize that there was never a true contest between
domina-et-servus: Ultimately, the male comes to realize that there was never a true contest between the sexes, because as a man he never possessed the many qualities present in Women–to birth, to heal, to grow, even to destroy and replant. He comes to see that he may, however, complement Her by adding to the relationship his own qualities–strength and speed and the nature of the carnivore–because it is still a dangerous world. Growing with Her, within Her, because of Her, his Domina, he finds that being possessed is better than possessing; he finds that in being relieved of the need to conquer, he is a better man as a whole, still fully capable in his masculinity, and with a clearer purpose as the protector, the guardian, the knight to his Queen. –servus -- source link