I know there are people getting upset in the comments about but what about the ones that weren’t lik
I know there are people getting upset in the comments about but what about the ones that weren’t like that. First off, good for them, anyone who managed to find the right person deserves to have that celebrated.Secondly while I do think those relationships existed the ones that are #goals with the power disparity that would have existed between men and women in the time of my/our grandparents I just don’t see that lending itself to forging healthy relationships. And considering how concerned with appearance much of that generation is I don’t know how reliable stories are from people that were in those situations are. Also some people may hesitate about shattering the delusions of their grandchildren. Like yea Pop Pop shares bacon with you and pick you up when he hugs you but he also laughed in Nana’s face when he was stepping on her oxygen hose. So there’s that.Thirdly a high divorce rate mean that for the most part (I know there are people that are trapped in horrible marriages still and I hope they find a way out of them) that people that are together want to be. If 50% of marriages end in divorce that means 50% don’t, you’ve got a 1 in 2 chance of finding and keeping the person you are supposed to be with. My first marriage was to a parasitic alcoholic who stole from me to get hookers and gaslighted me constantly.My second marriage is to a man who ask me how my heart is, tells me I’m the best thing that ever happened to him, and fills me with so much joy that leaving him to go to work is really hard. -- source link
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