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hamburgergod:kweyolempress:hamburgergod:kweyolempress:hamburgergod:kweyolempress:hamburgergod:to everyone who’s ever said that we don’t exist, that we are broken, that we don’t belong. to everyone with the idea of the “perfect asexual” whose asexuality is valid only when it’s not influenced by factors in our past and present lives. also to everyone who’s ever told me that I don’t belong in the ace community because I’m demi. You’d think with our flag representing the ace spectrum (plus purple for community), the point would’ve been made by now.(hand drawn using my own hand as reference so I can personally flip aforementioned people off) Being asexual is literally being devoid of sexual feelings towards another. No spectrum…. Also Demi? Really? You’re just picky. So are more people.if you’re confused on how demisexuality works and you would genuinely like to understand, I will gladly explain to you. if you’re here to dismiss things you don’t understand for the spirit of being an asshole, I’d advise you to stop wasting mine and everyone else’s time. I’ve read plenty about demisexuality. It isn’t a sexuality. It’s a preference.call it what you will, but I’m not going to stop being demi (and by extension, ace) because you judge the orientation to be a preference and not a sexuality.Demisexuals are also “devoid”, as you put it, of sexual attraction. Which, by your definition (and by definition of asexuality according to AVEN) is what asexuality is. It isn’t until we form an intense emotional bond with someone (can be romantic or platonic, or any other nature) that we MIGHT have a chance to feel sexual attraction towards that person. We don’t feel sexual attraction towards EVERYONE we form this emotional bond with. The way this emotional bond forms will depend on the individual. The grey stripe on the asexual flag is for those that identify as grey-A and demi, whereas the black stripe means ace, and white means sexual (or allosexuality). It is, as you can see, a range of shades. One might even call it a spectrum.Demisexuality isn’t Being Picky™. And also, if you genuinely believe everyone feels attraction this way and don’t understand why demisexuals are making a big fuss about it, there’s a good chance that you yourself are demisexual, or at least somewhere on the ace spectrum. People aren’t all attracted to people the way they’re portrayed in the media. Stop making your PREFERENCE a big deal, because it really isn’t.at this point, all you’re convincing me of is that you’re just butthurt because I took precious time and effort out of my life to specifically flip people like you off. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ -- source link